National Volunteer Week 2026 Spotlight: Mary, A Legacy of 23 Years of Mentorship

National Volunteer Week is a time to recognize the individuals who strengthen our communities through their time, care, and commitment. At Big Sisters of BC Lower Mainland, volunteers are at the heart of everything we do. Their consistency, compassion, and dedication create meaningful change in the lives of youth.

This week, we are proud to spotlight Mary, a long-time volunteer whose 23 years of service reflect the lasting impact of mentorship. From being a Big Sister to her Little, Judy, to her ongoing involvement in the Activities Committee and now the Alumni Committee, Mary’s commitment continues to shape our community.

“Mentorship to me means getting up, dressing up and showing up. By being consistent in this practice, it shows our youth that someone cared enough to be there for them.”

Commitment That Spans Decades

Mary began her journey with Big Sisters in 2003 and was matched with her Little Sister, Judy, from 2004 to 2015. Over those 11 years, their relationship was built on trust, connection, and shared experiences.

Mary’s decision to become a mentor was rooted in her own childhood. Growing up in a single-parent home, she understood the importance of having support and connection.

“I always knew that at some point, when I was ready, I would like to mentor girls who are in a similar situation to what I had and show them that they too can thrive.”

Beyond her one-to-one match, Mary has been an active member of the Activities Committee since 2004 and recently joined the Alumni Committee in 2025, continuing to stay connected and give back in meaningful ways.

Moments That Stay With You

Over more than two decades, Mary has experienced many memorable moments. One that stands out is a simple outing that became something special.

During a match anniversary, Mary and Judy visited Earl’s Test Kitchen downtown. As Judy curiously explored the menu and asked questions, a staff member approached their table to check in. Mary playfully told Judy they might be “secret shoppers,” which sparked excitement and laughter.

“I let Judy be who she was. I did not act like a parent to Judy and that’s what made it fun.”

It was a reminder that mentorship is often found in everyday moments, where connection, trust, and joy naturally unfold.

Watching Confidence Grow

For Mary, one of the most meaningful parts of volunteering is seeing youth come into their own over time.

“Seeing my Little and others come to an event starting out shy and then becoming less shy, smiling, and enjoying themselves… knowing they feel welcomed and accepted for who they are in a safe space.”

These transformations, from hesitation to confidence, reflect the power of consistent support and inclusive environments.

What Mentorship Means

Mary’s perspective on mentorship is simple and grounded in action.

“Mentorship to me means getting up, dressing up and showing up.”

For her, it is about consistency, presence, and care. Showing up regularly sends a powerful message to youth that they matter, that they are supported, and that someone believes in them. Through her years of experience, Mary has seen firsthand how that consistency can shape a young person’s confidence and future.

Celebrating Volunteers This National Volunteer Week

Mary’s story is a powerful reflection of what mentorship can look like over time. Her dedication, care, and commitment have created lasting impact, not only for her Little Sister but for many youth in our community.

This National Volunteer Week, we celebrate Mary and all of our volunteers who continue to show up and make a difference.

If you’re interested in creating meaningful connections and supporting youth in your community, learn more about becoming a volunteer mentor here or contact us at info@bigsisters.bc.ca.